welcome to intentional discipleship

Scroll down and read through each section. Then respond as the Holy Spirit leads you. There’s a form at the bottom of the page.

THE WHAT AND WHY OF DISCIPLESHIP

  • We can’t sit idle. The world needs men ready to lead in both humility and boldness for the Kingdom. This isn’t about “doing more”. This is about surrendering more and allowing God to do more…in us…through us. This is not a series of challenges for men to accomplish but rather a move of the heart toward actively participating in building God’s kingdom.

  • The direction we’re leading men begins with the 4S’s: Silence, Solitude, Scripture, and Sabbath. These principles are central to the church’s vision and apply to all believers, regardless of age or gender. However, they hold a special significance for the men we aim to shepherd.

  • The most important relationship anyone can have is their personal relationship with God. Modern culture often distracts us with countless demands, crowding out opportunities for spiritual growth. At the Difference, we encourage men to invest in their relationship with God through the 4S’s, creating dedicated time for daily spiritual investment. While each man’s journey is unique, active participation in this process is essential.

  • Instead of following a formula to become “better” or “more spiritual,” our goal is to inspire men to become spiritual leaders in their households. For many, this may be an unfamiliar concept, as it counters both cultural and, at times, even church norms. Spiritual leadership should ideally be modeled generationally - demonstrated by fathers in the presence of their children and spouses. In the absence of such examples, we aim to equip men to lead in their own homes.

    Simply put, we will follow the way of Jesus in our own lives to receive love, wisdom, guidance, and the fruits of the Spirit so that our hearts are filled. Then, we will share what we’ve received with others. The goal of every believer is to first serve and apprentice their spouse and family before anyone else. Then, to make a difference each day in the lives of those God puts in our path. And finally, to be shepherded by someone and eventually apprentice 5 people to walk in the true way of Jesus.

THE HOW OF DISCIPLESHIP

  • 1. Learn how to live your life with solitude, silence, scripture, and sabbath (The 4 S’s – DAILY)

    2. Make your home your sanctuary for God and be open to hosting a Home Experience (WEEKLY)

    3. Come together with others for a time of praising, worshipping, sharing, and encouraging others to “run the race with endurance”. And to be visible to the world. (MONTHLY)

    4. Jesus calls us to then disciple others…to walk with them, care for them, love them. Our goal is for each person to disciple 5 people in their lifetime. (DISCIPLE)

    5. Jesus showed us that when we receive love, we are called to GIVE LOVE. We will care for the least of these, walking into every day with open hands in AVAILABILITY. (SERVE)

  • 1. Walk the pathway to the best of your ability. (Be committed to the 5 things.)

    2. Be open to feedback. Be teachable and eager to learn.

    3. Be committed. Let your word be your word and follow through with your commitment to God.

    4. Four intentional outings with the entire group for fellowship, encouragement, fun, and inspiration. This includes one overnight retreat together.

    5. A monthly 90-minute one-on-one coffee, lunch, or dinner with a mentor/friend.

    6. Read any books, scriptures suggested and participate sharing your thoughts and insight.

  • • A man that LISTENS, OBEYS, & HONORS God in his private life.

    • A man who leads spiritually in his home.

    • A man who leads spiritually in the outside areas God calls us into.

    • A man who exhibits the fruits of the Spirit and lives a life of LOVE, PEACE, JOY, & HOPE.

Let’s do this…

Fill out the form here and we will reach out to get started. Please reserve 6:30pm-8:30pm on Thursday, March 27th for our first get together at Mission BBQ.